“HOW DOES GOD WANT YOU TO RESPOND TO YOUR

LOCAL CHURCH LEADERS?” Pt. 4

(The Church — God’s Masterpiece)

by Dennis Rokser

 

Let me invite you to answer this short quiz from Andersen Consulting, as it will help you understand your thinking style better.  The questions are not difficult.

 

Questions:

  1. How do you put a giraffe into a refrigerator?

 

  1. How do you put an elephant into a refrigerator?

 

  1. The Lion King is hosting an animal conference; all the animals attend except one.  Which animal does not attend?

 

OK, even if you did not answer the first three questions correctly you can surely answer this one.

 

  1. There is a river you must cross, but it is inhabited by crocodiles.  How do you manage it?

 

Answers:

Question #1:   Correct Answer: Open the refrigerator, put in the giraffe and close the door. This question tests whether you tend to do simple things in an overly complicated way.

 

Question #2:   Wrong Answer: Open the refrigerator, put in the elephant and close the refrigerator.

 

Correct Answer: Open the refrigerator, take out the giraffe, put in the elephant and close the door.  This tests your ability to think through

the repercussions of your actions.

 

Question #3:   Correct Answer: The Elephant. The Elephant is in the refrigerator! This tests your memory.

 

Question #4:   Correct Answer: You swim across. All the crocodiles are attending the Animal Meeting! This tests whether you learn quickly from your mistakes.

 

According to Andersen Consulting Worldwide, around 90% of the professionals they tested got all the questions wrong.  Yet many preschoolers got several correct answers.  Andersen Consulting says this conclusively disproves the theory that most professionals have the brains of four-year olds.

 

I am so grateful as a believer in Christ, a student of the Scriptures, and a shepherd of Christ’s flock, that God spells out in a simple and straight-forward fashion not only my pastoral responsibilities to Duluth Bible Church, but how believers who comprise our congregation are to respond to our spiritual leaders (elders).  Thus far we have derived from our study of the Scriptures that…

 

1.      God wants you to KNOW your local church leaders. (1 Thessalonians 5:12)

 

2.      God wants you to HIGHLY VALUE your local church leaders for their work’s sake.
(1 Thessalonians 5:13)

 

3.      God wants you to LISTEN to the BIBLICAL PREACHING and IMITATE THE FAITH of your local church leaders as they point you to the Lord Jesus Christ.  (Hebrews 13:7-9)

 

4.      God wants you to OBEY the biblical teaching and SUBMIT to the practical decisions of your local church leaders.  (Hebrews 13:17)

 

In this article, let’s further address this matter by considering how…

 

5.      God wants you to PRAY for and GREET your local church leaders.  (Heb. 13:18, 24)

 

Pray for us; for we are confident that we have a good conscience, in all things desiring to live honorably.  (Hebrews 13:18)

 

It is worthy to note that the specific directive of verse 18 falls on the heels of the exhortation of verse 17, which instructs believers to “obey” the teaching and “submit” to the practical decisions of their spiritual leaders who “watch out for your souls, as those who must give account.”  Shepherding God’s flock is an awesome responsibility with serious account-ability to Jesus Christ as Head of the Church.  This underscores the necessity (imperative mood) of repeated and regular prayer (present tense) for your spiritual leaders (literally, keep praying for us!).  As one of the church fathers once remarked: “the church is a lot like Noah’s ark.  If it weren’t for the judgment on the outside, you could never stand the smell on the inside.”

 

Your elder(s) need(s) your earnest and effective prayers for a multitude of scriptural reasons.

 

ü      Spiritual leaders are specifically targeted in the angelic conflict.

 

Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might.  Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.  For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places.  (Ephesians 6:10-12)

 

As an early church leader, the apostle Paul knew the truth of this firsthand while experiencing the sufficient grace of God.

 

And lest I should be exalted above measure by the abundance of the revelations, a thorn in the flesh was given to me, a messenger of Satan to buffet me, lest I be exalted above measure.  Concerning this thing I pleaded with the Lord three times that it might depart from me.  And He said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness." Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.  (2 Corinthians 12:7-9)

 

Satan knows the Old Testament axiom, “like people, like priest” (Hosea 4:9), for as the spiritual leadership goes, so goes the church.  Thus, every Bible-teaching pastor, teacher, evangelist, or missionary has an invisible target of bright red paint tattooed upon his back by Satan and his demons.  For if Satan can allure the flesh of a spiritual leader to fall either doctrinally or morally, it will have devastating and destructive effects upon the spiritual growth and service of that local church, coupled with their loss of testimony toward the lost.

 

There is a fable that Satan's emissaries were trying to tempt a holy man who lived in the Libyan desert.  Try as they might, the demons could not get the man to sin. The seductions of the flesh and the onslaught of doubts and fears left him unmoved. Angered by their failure, Satan stepped forward. "Your methods are too crude," he said.  "Just watch."  He whispered in the holy man's ear, "Your brother has just been made Bishop of Alexandria.”  Instantly a malignant scowl clouded the holy man's face. "Envy," Satan said to his cohorts, "is our final weapon for those who seek holiness.”[1]

 

Keep on praying for your spiritual leaders!

 

ü      Spiritual leaders must guard against bitterness when unjustly criticized.

 

Looking carefully lest anyone fall short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up cause trouble, and by this many become defiled.  (Hebrews 12:15)

 

While this can be a serious problem for any believer, this is magnified when an elder allows a “root of bitterness” to spring up.  It might be due to the agonies of an unappreciative and even abusive congregation; or the latest rumor about him which is circulating through the church’s “grace-vine;” or the unjust criticisms and slander by a person who failed to respond to biblical correction.  Unless this bitterness is confessed and forsaken (Proverbs 28:13), the pastor’s position and/or tongue can become an instrument of the sin nature (Romans 6:12-13a) in which his personal bitterness not only causes him “trouble,” but also many others “become defiled.”  You need to pray for your spiritual leaders!

 

ü      Spiritual leaders are responsible for feeding God’s flock sound doctrine.

 

Preach the word! Be ready in season and out of season. Convince, rebuke, exhort, with all longsuffering and teaching.  For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine, but according to their own desires, because they have itching ears, they will heap up for themselves teachers;  and they will turn their ears away from the truth, and be turned aside to fables.  (2 Timothy 4:2-4)

 

Some wise sage once remarked, “unhealthy sheep don’t reproduce well.”  The primary responsibility of the pastor is to “preach the Word” in such a way that spiritual health and growth result from God’s people hearing what they need, not necessarily what they want.  However, expository preaching that is clear, accurate, and practical involves Spirit-led study and preparation.  And whether it’s carefully studying the Scriptures, agonizing over appropriate applications, or dealing with distractions for message preparation, your spiritual leaders need your prayers.

 

ü      Spiritual leaders need divine wisdom in the decisions and trials they face.

 

If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.  But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea driven and tossed by the wind.  (James 1:5-6a)

 

The context of James 1:1-12 involves responding correctly to trials, and every pastor is weekly acquainted with many of them.  These trials may take the shape of a couple seeking an unbiblical divorce, the crunch of financial budget demands, ministry to parents who are experiencing heartache over a prodigal son, a family who is dealing with the death of a loved one, a disagreeable board member, a man plagued by the problem of pornography, etc.  How your leaders need divine direction and wisdom in knowing God’s will in the myriad of matters they confront!  They also need wise and skillful application of biblical precepts or principles in the decisions they must make.  In fact, sometimes a string of “small” decisions may actually have greater ramifications than a “big” decision that is made.  Are you getting the picture yet?  You need to regularly pray for your spiritual leaders.

 

ü      Spiritual leaders need doctrinal discernment to protect God’s flock from false teachers and spiritual predators.

 

Therefore take heed to yourselves and to all the flock, among which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers, to shepherd the church of God which He purchased with His own blood.  For I know this, that after my departure savage wolves will come in among you, not sparing the flock.  Also from among yourselves men will rise up, speaking perverse things, to draw away the disciples after themselves.  Therefore watch, and remember that for three years I did not cease to warn everyone night and day with tears. (Acts 20:28-31)

 

Too many Christians are like spiritual tumbleweed, blown “to and fro by every wind of doctrine.”  Others cannot discern the difference between green grass and Astroturf.  And whatever is on the top 10 best-selling book list in the local Christian bookstore that is “purpose-driven” is certainly true to the Word of God.  Right?  Wrong!  Thus, spiritual leaders need vigilance and discernment in order to “watch” and “warn  God’s flock of doctrinal steak laced with arsenic.  This obviously would be spiritually harmful if swallowed and digested.  So you need to pray for your spiritual leaders.

 

ü      Spiritual leaders need God’s grace, coupled with humility and insight, in addressing “problem people” and/or ensnared believers in the church.

 

Consider the range of “problem people” the first church leaders had to address.

 

It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you, and such sexual immorality as is not even named among the Gentiles – that a man has his father's wife!  (1 Corinthians 5:1)

 

Therefore when you come together in one place, it is not to eat the Lord's Supper.  For in eating, each one takes his own supper ahead of others; and one is hungry and another is drunk.  What! Do you not have houses to eat and drink in? Or do you despise the church of God and shame those who have nothing? What shall I say to you? Shall I praise you in this? I do not praise you.  (1 Corinthians 11:20-22)

 

For we hear that there are some who walk among you in a disorderly manner, not working at all, but are busybodies. (2 Thessalonians 3:11)

 

Now Barnabas was determined to take with them John called Mark.  But Paul insisted that they should not take with them the one who had departed from them in Pamphylia, and had not gone with them to the work.  (Acts 15:37-38)

 

For Demas has forsaken me, having loved this present world, and has departed for Thessalonica.  (2 Timothy 4:10a)

 

Alexander the coppersmith did me much harm. May the Lord repay him according to his works.  (2 Timothy 4:14)

 

But shun profane and idle babblings, for they will increase to more ungodliness.  And their message will spread like cancer. Hymenaeus and Philetus are of this sort, who have strayed concerning the truth, saying that the resurrection is already past; and they overthrow the faith of some.  (2 Timothy 2:16-18)

 

Every assembly has a church nursery of “problem people” who too often hinder instead of help the work of the ministry.  Instead of walking with the Lord and spiritually growing so that they can effectively minister with the church leadership for the Lord, they live in ongoing self-focused carnality requiring that you repeatedly must minister to them.   Because of this, you need to pray for your local church leaders!

 

ü      Spiritual leaders need Spirit-prompted courage, along with personal encouragement, to stay the course in being faithful to God’s Word in a day of tremendous pressure to compromise for the sake of ecumenical acceptance, worldly prestige, and pseudo-church growth.

 

Therefore, since we have this ministry, as we have received mercy, we do not lose heart.  But we have renounced the hidden things of shame, not walking in craftiness nor handling the word of God deceitfully, but by manifestation of the truth commending ourselves to every man's conscience in the sight of God.  (2 Corinthians 4:1-2)

 

Pastor Steven J. Lawson writes,

 

As the Church advances into the twenty-first century, the stress to produce booming ministries has never been greater. Influenced by corporate mergers, towering skyscrapers, and expanding economies, bigger is perceived as better, and nowhere is this "Wall Street" mentality more evident than in the church. Sad to say, pressure to produce bottomline results has led many ministries to sacrifice the centrality of biblical preaching on the altar of man-centered pragmatism.

 

A new way of "doing" church is emerging. In this radical paradigm shift, exposition is being replaced with entertainment, preaching with performances, doctrine with drama, and theology with theatrics. The pulpit, once the focal point of the church, is now being overshadowed by a variety of church-growth techniques, everything from trendy worship styles to glitzy presentations to vaudeville-like pageantries. In seeking to capture the upperhand in church growth, a new wave of pastors is reinventing church and repackaging the gospel into a product to be sold to "consumers."

Whatever reportedly works in one church is being franchised out to various "markets" abroad. As when gold was discovered in the foothills of California, so ministers are beating a path to the doorsteps of exploding churches and super-hyped conferences where the latest "strike" has been reported. Unfortunately the newly panned gold often turns out to be "fool's gold." Not all that glitters is actually gold.[2]

 

Believers, keep on praying for your spiritual leaders!

 

ü      Spiritual leaders need balance in addressing the various demands upon their life regarding their marriage, their family, their church, etc.

 

The author of Hebrews 13:18 humbly assessed that he not only needed the prayers of the saints but was worthy of them due to his pastoral faithfulness by God’s grace.  He was persuaded of this conviction (along with his fellow-leaders)…

 

For we are confident that we have a good conscience, in all things desiring to live honorably.  (Hebrews 13:18)

 

It is marvelous to have a good guilt-free conscience before God and toward men.  Too many pastors have sacrificed their families on the altar of church service or have been lazy in pastoral ministry as they tune their golf game and forget that they are to serve…

 

Not with eyeservice, as men-pleasers, but as bondservants of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart.  (Ephesians 6:6)

 

Their personal confidence was rooted in their God-given desire and objective that “in all things desiring to live honorably.”

 

By God’s grace this Spirit-wrought character reality had been true of these leaders in the past, and it was their request that others would pray for them that this would continue in the future.

 

The author thus wanted his readers to pray that he would maintain these qualities of spiritual integrity and leadership.[3]

 

Dear readers, don’t stop praying for your local church leaders!

 

One pastor who knows first hand the demands and difficulties of a shepherding ministry has written,

 

The writer of Hebrews apparently was a leader in the church, or churches, to whom he was writing, and here asks for the prayer support of those among whom he had ministered.  Every servant of Christ needs the prayers of the believers he is called to work with.  Church leaders are made of the same stuff as those they serve.  They have sins, weaknesses, limitations, blind spots, and needs of all sorts, just as everyone else.  They both need and deserve the prayers of God's people, without which they cannot be the most effective in His work (cf. James 3:1).

 

God's leaders face temptations that most other believers do not face to the same degree, because Satan knows that, if he can undermine the leaders, many others will go down with them.  If he can get them to compromise, to weaken their stand, to lessen their efforts, to become dejected and hopeless, he has caused the work of Christ great damage.

 

Paul did not hesitate to ask for prayer.  ‘Pray on my behalf, that utterance may be given to me in the opening of my mouth, to make known with boldness the mystery of the gospel’ (Eph. 6:19). How much more do God's ordinary ministers need the prayer of their people.[4]

 

Your spiritual leaders need specific prayer support as “who is sufficient for these things?”  (2 Cor. 2:16b)

 

Not that we are sufficient of ourselves to think of anything as being from ourselves, but our sufficiency is from God, who also made us sufficient as ministers of the new covenant, not of the letter but of the Spirit; for the letter kills, but the Spirit gives life.  (2 Corinthians 3:5-6)

 

As a pastor, I am so very grateful to God for His sufficient grace and for so many believers who regularly bring me and the needs of our ministry before the throne of grace in prayer.  Are you convinced about the importance of prayer generally, and the need to pray for your pastor/elders specifically?  Consider the following encouragements about prayer.

 

E. M. Bounds writes:

 

What the church needs today is not more or better machinery, not new organizations, or more novel methods; but men whom the Holy Spirit can use – men of prayer, men mighty in prayer.

 

Phillips Brooks writes:

 

Prayer is not conquering God's reluctance, but taking hold of God's willingness.

 

J. Vernon McGee writes:

 

According to my humble judgment, the greatest need of the present-day church is prayer. Prayer should be the vital breath of the church, but right now it is gasping for air. One of the great Bible teachers of the past said that the church goes forward on its knees. Maybe one of the reasons the church is not going forward today is because it's not in a position to go forward – we are not on our knees in prayer.

 

Charles Haddon Spurgeon writes:

 

So the preacher of the gospel asks your prayers: and it is a part of the duties arising out of the relationship between Christian men that those who are taught should pray for those who teach God's Word.

 

In addition to this, before the epistle to the Hebrews ends, there is an almost inconspicuous directive that demands our attention.

 

Greet all those who rule over you, and all the saints. Those from Italy greet you.  (Hebrews 13:24)

 

The writer of Hebrews wanted a personal greeting communicated to the spiritual leaders (“those who rule over you”), as well as to “all the saints.”  While this must be interpreted in light of its specific historical context, there definitely appears to be a biblical principle worth highlighting by this imperative to “greet.”

 

Commenting on this verse, Dr. Warren Wiersbe writes…

 

Of course, the writer of this Hebrew epistle was sending his personal greetings to the leaders of the church; but this is a good example for all of us to follow.  Every Christian should be on speaking terms with their pastor.[5]

 

Are you on speaking terms with your pastor(s)?  Are you afraid to have eye contact with him?  Do you seek to avoid the door where he is greeting people after the church service?  Do you have resentment and bitterness in your heart toward him?  If this is true of you, you need to get this resolved with the Lord and your pastor, as God wants a harmonious and holy relationship between His shepherds and sheep. 

 

Dear readers, God wants you to keep on regularly praying for your local church leaders and to be on speaking terms with them.  Perhaps you are thinking, “But I want God to replace our current pastor with another man who is…” Richard DeHaan remarks (tongue-in-cheek) that this is all the more reason to pray for your pastor.

 

Here are some rather interesting and creative ways a church could get rid of their pastor. First, you could look him straight in the eye while he's preaching and say "Amen” once in a while and he would preach himself to death in a few weeks. Or you could build him up and encourage him on his good points and he would probably work himself to death by the end of the year. Another way to do it would be to dedicate your life to Christ and ask the preacher to give you a job to do, preferably some lost person you could win to Christ, and the pastor would die immediately of heart failure. Or, you could get the church to unite in prayer for the pastor... he'll soon become so effective some larger church will come and take him off your hands and you won't have to worry about it.[6]

 

How appropriate that the book of Hebrews ends with,

 

Grace be with you all. Amen.  (Hebrews 13:25) g

 

 



[1]   Erwin Lutzer, Pastor to Pastor, (Moody Press, Chicago, IL), pg. 61.

[2]   Steven J. Lawson, The Priority of Biblical Preaching: An Expository Study of Acts 2:42-47, (Bib. Sac. 158:630, April 2001), p. 199.

[3]   Robert Gromacki, Stand Bold In Grace, (Baker Book House, Grand Rapids, MI), pg. 224.

 

[4]   John MacArthur, Hebrews, (Moody Press, Chicago, IL), pg. 386-387.

[5] Dr. Warren Wiersbe, Be Confident, (Victor Books, Wheaton, IL, 1982), pg. 152.

 

[6] Chuck Swindoll, The Tale of the Tardy Oxcart, (W. Publishing Group), pg. 420.